Some people journal. Some meditate. I create highly detailed to-do lists I will absolutely ignore by 3 p.m. Welcome to my very unhealthy coping mechanism. I am in a long-term, mutually destructive relationship – with planners. To-do lists, digital calendars, sticky notes. They make me feel lazy and useless, I leave them to gather dust… Continue reading My toxic love affair with planners, to-do lists, and the illusion of control